TIME TRAVELER'S WIFE

Okay, if any of you have NOT read the book, PLEASE, PLEASE go and get it!!

The movie trailer's out!! Can't help feeling that they should have casted Orlando Bloom as Henry though. Eric Bana..errr...macam tak kena ah..

I bawled my eyes out reading the book and I just read it for the second time a few weeks ago cause the story can be confusing. And I finally figured out the ending, as in what actually happened to Henry. Hurhur.

The way Henry disappears in the book and in the movie caught me by surprise though. Reading the book, I always envisioned Henry disappearing with a "POP!". You know, like a magician like that. Hahaha..

But still, I am excited to see the movie!! But why ERIC BANA??

Sometimes I feel that you don't care enough. That you chuck me away on one side after you get what you want.

Sometimes I feel that when I say something, you don't listen. You just get defensive and say that I am the one who does the same thing to you.

I tried to make my point but you don't really seem to care.

So I shall not bother la.

I feel very neglected today. Must be the period blues...

The day started at 7.45 am. Next destination, Mustafa Centre.

Chappati and teh for breakfast. Super delicious.

Getting the essentials and shopping at Mustafa. Took about 2 hours.

Me shopping like nobody's business. Getting important stuff la.

To AMK to take a break. Playing the flute and piano. Playing Resident Evil 3.

Having fun and spending quality time together.

Me, trying on my future.

Soto Ayam, Rojak Mama and Soyabean drinks.

Off to Orchard to look for my Yak Pak at Heeren.

Smelly farts while I was looking at a particular bag. HEHEHEHEHE....

Toilet.

Him fibbing that his hair on the arm is gone and that means I have to do what again baa??

Baaaa Buuuu Biiii...."take out the buuuu," he says. Kongsam nak mampus.

His hand looking strangely bloated infront of the mosque.

To Bangkit for contacts.

My dearie paying it for me :) Thank you soooo much my dear...

This is my simple life with my simple guy....

It is so easy to accuse another of any wrongdoing she/he has done.

It is so easy to point the finger and get angry in an instant.

But it is so hard to forgive a person for what he/she has done to you.

I still remember clearly what happened late last year.

All the cat fights, the bitchiness.

When I look back, I realise I should not have bothered confronting her. How silly I was. How I stooped to the most childish level.

Cause, now I realise that she was too much of a coward to tell it to my face and instead wrote about it in her blog.

Don't get me wrong, I am no longer angry or upset, but I realise the foolishness of the situation.

Sometimes, I wonder, if I had not confronted her or asked her about that particular entry on me and my friends, whether we still would have remained friends till today.

But then again, things happen for a reason.

I read her blog just now, and apparently she is going through the same situation of telling another person she is disappointed in them.

Good luck to you girl. If you ever read my blog again, just want to say that from my point of view, it's better you tell the person what you think of herby telling her face to face rather than keep it all in and talk about the person in your blog, cause that just shows how much of a coward you are and you naively let her take advantage of you. In that aspect, you still have not changed and you still have not learnt your lessons.

But then again, maybe you are just you and you do not have the heart to tell it to her face. Who knows right? I no longer know who you are.

I remember the sms you sent me saying that it took you along time to forgive me. Well, just so you know and realise, I too, have something to forgive you for. I have forgiven you for what you said about me and my friends, but I have not forgotten. I was upset back then because I could not believe you had the nerve to implicate my friends and you never tried to understand me. You say you are the bigger person than me, but sadly I disagree with you, cause at least, I NEVER called YOUR friends names.

Oh well, that was all in the past. And I have never told you how you have disappointed me, but it does not matter now, cause we are no longer friends.

I wish you all the success in life.

Happy anniversary to you and me. Thank you for wishing me. I thought you had forgotten.

Well, the journey to 21 months has not been smooth sailing all the way. I am sure that most of you ladies know that it IS hard work to make a relationship work.

A relationship is not about one person dominating the other. It is, at least to me, a partnership between 2 people who care, love and respect each other as individuals.

When you go into a relationship, you commit yourself to it. Sure, I have heard people say not to give 100% of yourself to your other half cause you just end up being consumed by the relationship and forgetting who you are.

True, to a certain extent, I admit that sometimes I give too much of myself in my relationship. However, with time, I try not to lose myself in the process. The joys of being in a relationship involves me giving myself whole-heartedly to my other half until he really knows me inside out.

At the same time, there are times where a couple just need their OWN personal time; ME time.

Being in a relationship does not mean forsaking your friends for your other half. That is seriously unhealthy. Honestly, having girl-time with your girlfriends is important.

When you have been together for a period of time, the "honeymoon" period starts to fade away. You start getting too comfortable with each other. In some instances, you start getting complacent and you may start taking each other for granted. The lines that you once drew about being respectful to one another sometimes gets blurry as well.

In some instances, you lose sight of what you once had with your other half. Cracks start to appear and you start seeing the other sides of one another. In some instances you may accept their flaws, even love them for it, but in some instances, you just cannot tolerate those flaws.

There are times when you start to drift apart and that's when the communication really breaks down. In some instances, deep down, you know you really love your other half but sometimes, you forget that the relationship needs some romance to keep the spark alive again.

In some instances, once a couple gets too comfortable with each other, they don't believe in romancing their other half. I find it sad if couples think that way.

For me, roamnce is really important. Even buying a little trinket (something romantic) once in awhile shows that you still desire your other half. As a girl, it is important that I feel loved and pampered. Wouldn't you want to feel the same way too?

Any girl who is in a relationship and says that she doesnt need all this is, in my opinion, IN DENIAL.

Any girl would love to be romanced.

It is also important to appreciate one another for the simplest gestures they do. Even fetching you, sending you home, or even buying vitamin pills mean something to me. To show appreciation, I feel it is really important I say "Thank you" to my other half cos it shows that you appreciate what your other half did for you.

In return, they will feel gratified that you don't take them for granted. This is one of the things I find so important in a relationship. Saying "Thank you". How many of us have forgotten to say such a simple phrase? I admit I may have forgotten at times but I try to make it a habit.

Being in a relationship, there are bound to be arguments. Sometimes having arguments are healthy for relationships cause it shows that you care. However, if your fights are too frequent, it could mean something is amiss in the relationship. Don't get me wrong, I am no relationship guru, but I am basing what I say in reference to my relationship with my other half as well as errr... a "person" I used to know with his/her turbulent relationships with the ex-es.

Don't get me wrong, I learned a few things from this person, and for that I have to give my thanks.

Communication is important. Communicating does NOT just mean talking. It also means being able to LISTEN to one another. When your other half says something you may not neccessarily like at first ( I know I don't), it is okay to be upset. However, I realise that sometimes, that yeah, maybe I am behaving in a way that is bad for the relationship. I try and see it from his point of view. If I have upset him in any way, it is important I aoplogise.

Apologising. Many of us don't do it often enough. I am guilty of this as well. When we have arguments and I am in the wrong, I find it hard to say the words, "I'm sorry". So does my other half. Sometimes I think we don't apologise enough to each other.

Knowing when to give and take is essential. Yup, I can be really stubborn at times and want things done my way. There are instances where my other half relents and there are instances where he puts his foot down firmly. The same goes for him. Admittedly, there are outcomes which I don't neccessarily desire, but I eventually get around to accepting it. Oh well, who said realtionship is a bed of roses anyway?? The thorns are there for a reason isn't it?

Too good to be true la. I came across this website in Singapore and they sell T & Co. jewellery like bloody cheap la. Apparently they buy directly from Hong Kong's T & Co. distributor. BUT their privacy policy stated that the jewellery are exact replicas and imitations of T & Co AND that they do not represent T & Co. in any way. So I am confused by what they say. So are they selling imitations or are they selling REAL T & Co. jewellery direct from the distributor?

Apparently when you order, they deliver it with the T & Co blue box and the pouch as well. However, there will be no invoice as the jewellery is not authenticated by T & Co. shops. Hmmmm..how?? Want to believe or not??

I kinda think that these are the real deal. As in T & Co buys it from their Hong Kong distributor and BECAUSE T & Co. is like a MEGABRAND, they authenticise (is there such a word?) their jewellery and sell it for like hundreds of dollars. I don't know which to believe..but I am so, so tempted to buy. Damn!!

BABY, I'M NOT MAD

I miss you. I'm sorry. Can we make up now??

Finally, I have the time to post pictures up as I am free!! No more meetings until the last week of June!!! Yipee!!

That gives me the luxury of spending 2 weeks wherever I want and whatever I want!!

Hehehe...okay, some of the pics were taken like weeks ago, and I am so sorry cos I haven't really been taking pictures during my outings. Hmph. Should make more effort la eh.

Other stuff, let me see..okay, I ordered this Queen Helene Mint Julep Masque online. I have a tendency to order cheap things online nowadays. Well, a bottle costs about $12.50, in Sing dollars. You cannot find the masque at normal pharmacies in Singapore cos they don't supply it here.

I've heard really good stuff about the masque, so as usual, I went online to find whether there are people who bought from the US and sells it here. And I found one!! I'm expecting to get my masqe today or tomorrow!! So excited to try it out!! Hopefully the results are as good as the reviews ya?? Once I have tried it out and if any of you are interested to purchase it, I can give you the link of the Singapore supplier I bought it from. Free postage too!! Heh. Okay, enough yakking, some pictures up next!!

and my cute lil nephew!!!