It is so easy to accuse another of any wrongdoing she/he has done.

It is so easy to point the finger and get angry in an instant.

But it is so hard to forgive a person for what he/she has done to you.

I still remember clearly what happened late last year.

All the cat fights, the bitchiness.

When I look back, I realise I should not have bothered confronting her. How silly I was. How I stooped to the most childish level.

Cause, now I realise that she was too much of a coward to tell it to my face and instead wrote about it in her blog.

Don't get me wrong, I am no longer angry or upset, but I realise the foolishness of the situation.

Sometimes, I wonder, if I had not confronted her or asked her about that particular entry on me and my friends, whether we still would have remained friends till today.

But then again, things happen for a reason.

I read her blog just now, and apparently she is going through the same situation of telling another person she is disappointed in them.

Good luck to you girl. If you ever read my blog again, just want to say that from my point of view, it's better you tell the person what you think of herby telling her face to face rather than keep it all in and talk about the person in your blog, cause that just shows how much of a coward you are and you naively let her take advantage of you. In that aspect, you still have not changed and you still have not learnt your lessons.

But then again, maybe you are just you and you do not have the heart to tell it to her face. Who knows right? I no longer know who you are.

I remember the sms you sent me saying that it took you along time to forgive me. Well, just so you know and realise, I too, have something to forgive you for. I have forgiven you for what you said about me and my friends, but I have not forgotten. I was upset back then because I could not believe you had the nerve to implicate my friends and you never tried to understand me. You say you are the bigger person than me, but sadly I disagree with you, cause at least, I NEVER called YOUR friends names.

Oh well, that was all in the past. And I have never told you how you have disappointed me, but it does not matter now, cause we are no longer friends.

I wish you all the success in life.